Ways to Feel Sexy Now (Because You Are Sexy)

Sometimes it's hard to feel sexy when everyday demands of work, family, friends, and other responsibilities take up your time.  Add the fact that maybe we don't see our bodies as perfect in every way, and it's no wonder we allow ourselves to neglect the sexy side that lives in all of us.

1.  Enjoy Your Body.  No one's body is perfect, so why do you expect yours to be?  Take a look at all the good things about you and the body you are lucky to have.  Are you a great swimmer?  Congratulate your body on its swimming expertise.  Do you have skin that always burns and never tans?  Admire it for its milky-white, feminine appearance.  Are your legs a little thicker than the average person's?  Thank them for being strong and getting you where you want to go, when you want to go there.

2.  Give Back to Your Body.  Your body deserves to be pampered for all it does for you.  Treat it to a long bubble bath complete with candles, a good book, and a glass of your favorite wine (or sparkling grape juice or sparkling water with a squeeze of lime).  Other great options:  a relaxing facial; a manicure; or a professional massage (hopefully by some gorgeous masseur).

3.  Exercise.  Yes, surprisingly exercise lets you reconnect with your sexy self.  Exercise releases endorphins making you feel happy, positive, and ready for lovin'.  It also gives your body energy by revitalizing it.  Not sure how to start?  Try simply walking, swimming, or hiking 1/2 hour a day (after you get the go ahead from your doctor, of course).  Schedule it in every day for the next 2 weeks (to start) and you will notice the difference in your sexy mood and sexy self.

How To Feel Sexy Instantly

Sometimes it's hard to feel sexy when everyday demands of work, family, friends, and other responsibilities take up your time.  Add the fact that maybe we don't see our bodies as perfect in every way, and it's no wonder we allow ourselves to neglect the sexy side that lives in all of us.  Here is part 1 of "How to Feel Sexy Instantly".

Kiss Him Over And Over And Over Again

Your flirting, relationship, and dating smarts are just about to skyrocket.  Use our tips on your flirt target.  If you are married, do it with your spouse.  (S)he'll love you for it:


What is there not to love about kissing? No one needs incentive to kiss (it's so seductive and fun) but here are more reasons to kiss and kiss more (especially if you are in a long-term relationship).

Kissing for one minute burns about 10-26 calories.  In this day and age of the health and fitness conscious, who doesn't love calorie burning activities.  The calories burned depends on how burning (or how into it) you are when your lips are locked.  The hotter the passion the better.  So go for it.

Decode His Body Language: Is He Flirting With You? Four Signs That Definitely Say He Is Flirting.

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Is He Flirting With You?  Decode His Body Language

Studies say that more than half of our one-on-one communication is not in what we say, but is communicated through our body language.  Trouble is when we are flirting we are so busy trying to make a good impression, we sometimes we forget to pick up on what our flirt target is saying to us.  Reading subtle body language can help us know whether to back off and take things a little more slowly or plough full steam ahead.  It's a valuable gauge.  Read on to find out how to read his body language and tip the odds a little more in your favor.

How to Attract Men and be a Man Magnet

Looking great isn't all that's involved in attracting Mr. Delicious when you're out on the town.  Approachability is just as, if not more important than anything else.  Use these moves and Mr. Delicious will be walking your way.

Sexual Perfume Flirt Tip

Your flirting, relationship, and dating smarts are just about to skyrocket.  Use our tips on your flirt target.  If you are married, do it with your spouse.  (S)he'll love you for it!:


Science shows that looking at your flirt target in the eye increases the chance they'll fall for you.  Lock eyes with the person you like whether they are across the room or in your group.  Keep them locked even when they have finished talking or someone else joins your group.  When you do have to drag your eyes away, do it slowly and reluctantly.

How to Know She is Flirting With You (And Not Just Being Friendly)

Even in this day and age of equality, many women often want men to make the first move.  It's sexy, it's romantic, and it shows her the guy has confidence. 

This fact may explain why we have been getting more and more e-mails from our guy readers asking us to deal with this one burning question:  "How do I know she's into me?" "How do I know she's being more than just friendly?"

How to Kiss so (S)He'll Want More: Three Easy Steps to Becoming a Sexy, Sought-After Kisser

Want to really electrify her (him) with your kisses?  Bring it to the next level.  Once you amp up your kissing skills, (s)he'll be knocking on your door for more:


1.  Pay Attention to the Kiss.  I mean really pay attention.  Tune into the softness in her (his) lips; feel your partner's body against yours; listen to her (his) almost inaudible moans.  Once you allow yourself to relax and immerse yourself in the wave of signals your partner is sending, you will naturally be more sensual and inviting with your kiss.


2.  Mix it Up.  Gently break away from the kiss to steal little moments of extra passion.  Stare deeply into her (his) eyes before returning to the kiss.  Nibble your partner's lip, bite her (his) neck with different levels of intensity.  (Always make it gentle enough for pleasure.  No one wants a pain in the neck.)

Keep the Excitement in Your Relationship

Sometimes we all need a little help to keep our relationship fresh and exciting, even if we have found the love of our life.  Daily routines and other demands on our time keep us running through the treadmill of life.  Before we know it, our relationship may be pushed to the back burner.


If this describes what has happened to your relationship, know that you are not alone.  Even those of us in the best relationships need to keep finding ways to reconnect with our loved ones.  Once you make it a goal to reconnect with your guy/girl, you will find it easier and easier to do every day.  The trick is to get started.  The rewards are immeasurable.


Here are some simple, but powerfully effective ideas to transform and revitalize your relationship.  


1.  Leave a thank you note on her pillow.  Thank her for the delicious dinner she made that evening.  Tell her how much you are looking forward to cuddling with her later.  Tell her how much you loved talking with her over dinner.


2.  Commit to spending time alone.  Ask him out on a date once a week.  Whether that is dinner out at your favorite restaurant; a walk through a nearby park; or a movie night in, the point is to have time alone to refresh your relationship.  Turn off all cell phones and keep the focus on the two of you.  Everyone needs time together without distractions to allow good conversation and other bonding to take place.


3. Go on an adventure.  Do something you have never done before.  Take horseback riding, scuba, or skating lessons.  Go on a balloon ride (they are surprisingly exciting and calming at the same time).  Adventures are the ultimate in bonding experiences.  It gives you a feeling of team spirit; gives you something in common to talk about; and raises your endorphin levels.


Brainstorm a few ideas of your own, then start doing them right away.  Mix it up, so your love life will always remain exciting and your loved-one will never know what to expect next.  It will transform your relationship.

The Setai, Fifth Avenue, New York

Whenever I go to New York, I love staying at the Setai, Fifth Avenue.  


Everyone deserves to stay at the Setai. Everyone.


Michel and I were one of the lucky few to stay during their opening weeks.  We had never been to the Setai before, but upon recommendation of a friend, we took the chance and made our reservation.  We felt we were in a paradise away from home.  (Home is paradise itself, but when on business, it's often grueling to travel.  Coming back to a hotel room that is comfortable and quiet is paradise.)  


I am leaving you with a few pictures of our lovely stay.  Wish all of you could experience the room we were so lucky to relax in, because you all deserve it.  Enjoy.

The view from our hotel room: the empire state building.  Beautiful.

Michel, checking to make sure everything is A-OK.  (It was.)

Our dog Lion when we got back home, I'm sure he was thinking, "Where were you?"

How to Leave the "Friend Zone". (2) Turn a Friendship Into a Romantic Relationship.

I originally posted this article late last year.  I am posting it again as e-mails keep coming in asking about this very topic.  If you know someone in this situation, pass it on.  I'm sure they will appreciate it.


I was recently asked, "How do you go from being a friend of a friend, and instead start a dating relationship with that person.  In other words, how do you leave the friend zone once your feelings have blossomed into something more romantic?  It's a dilemma for some because it's hard to get the message across to your friend-turned-love interest. 


It seems obvious to say, but you have to stop giving off the "friend-only vibe".  For instance, when you suggest getting together, pick date-obvious places.  If you ask if (s)he wants to go out for something to eat, suggest dinner at a restaurant that is obviously romantic.  Make your objectives clear by sending out flirty vibes when you do ask her/him out.


Flirt.  Flirt a lot.  Flirting is really doing things to show you're interested.  Compliment one really nice thing about her/him; sit closely enough that your thigh touches hers/his; make a lot of eye contact.


The art to flirting is making your feelings known without becoming clingy or a stalker.  You will know when you have gone too far when (s)he breaks eye contact or moves or leans slightly away from you.  It may be only a slight move, but pay attention to it.  If it's there at all, that's your key to take it back a notch.


Yes, there are risks involved.  (S)he may not be interested in you in that way.  If that is the case, the two of you will find out if you really are good friends.  If so, your friendship will survive.  If not, your friendship may deteriorate; but then, it really wasn't that great of a friendship after all was it?  In that case, the friendship would have ended soon enough, whether you tried going after a dating relationship with that person or not.


If it feels right, act on your feelings.  If you are giving off too many "friend vibes"; (s)he may not have the courage to make the first move, thinking it would be futile.  And that would be a tragedy.

Flirting Body Language That Makes You Irresistible

The festive season is fast approaching and you’re ready for a night out with your single friends.  You’re feeling good.   You’re hair flows with body, your fragrance says, “I’m sexylicious” and your outfit flatters your figure.  But you still wonder what else you could do to attract that hot guy.  Here are some strategies that will lure him in:

When with your friends, avoid standing in a closed circle.  Looking super engrossed in your conversation sends the message “Keep away.  I’m not interested.”  Keep your shoulders opened outwards towards the crowd.  Look at your friends, but don’t forget to occasionally check out the crowd.  These physical signs send the message that you’re okay with being approached and that anyone wishing to start a conversation with you is welcome.

Keep yourself positioned near the center of the room.  You will get more exposure and look like you enjoy being approached and with people.  Standing near the exit gives you exposure to those guys that are leaving.  Those are the guys that won’t take the time to talk to you if their friends are coaxing them to move on to the next party location.

Don’t look super involved with your drink.  You will look nervous and insecure.  Instead, in between drinks, use your hands and relaxed body gestures, when talking to your friend.  It shows your confident, relaxed, have energy.  In short, it makes you have flirt appeal.

When sitting down, dangle your shoe off your toes, and slowly cross your legs.  These gestures look irresistibly inviting, flirty, and seductive.  You’re also saying: “I’m here to stay for a while.”  And that means he’s going to feel comfortable approaching you because you’re unlikely to leave in a hurry if he heads your way.

Smile, smile, smile.  Smiling is flirty.  It makes you look ultra-friendly. That means he’ll approaching you easily, because even if he is not your type, you would let him down politely and easily.  Smiling also makes him feel like you would be easy to start a conversation with and that even if he stumbles, you’d be happy to pick up the line.