Showing posts with label Lifestyle Tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lifestyle Tips. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

How to Buy, Wear, and Store Cologne. A Guide for Real Men.

(Cologne is an instant charmer.  It says, "I have style and the confidence you are looking for in a man."  Studies show that men who wear cologne not only get the girl, but they get the salary increase.  The following article is written for real men.  If you know of any real men who are struggling with this issue or would like a refresher course on how to buy a fragrance that is perfect for them, please forward this article on to them.  They will thank you for it.)

O.k., I know, buying cologne is the furthest thing from your mind right now.  You've dismissed wearing anything beyond a drugstore aftershave (if you put on any scent at all).  Buying aftershave is quick and dirty.  You walk over to the drugstore aisle labelled "personal hygiene", zoom in on a forest green or brown bottle, walk up to the cashier, and leave with a bag that looks as if it's holding something any real man uses (razors, condoms, gum).  After all, walking into a department store's fragrance section is about as manly as walking into a flower shop to buy a bouquet for your man-pad. 

Oh, you may be cute, but you are so naive.

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

How to Feel Sexy Instantly: Part 2

Sometimes it's hard to feel sexy when everyday demands of work, family, friends, and other responsibilities take up your time.  Add the fact that maybe we don't see our bodies as perfect in every way, and it's no wonder we allow ourselves to neglect the sexy side that lives in all of us.  Here is part 2 of "How to Feel Sexy Instantly".

Monday, October 3, 2011

How to Feel Sexy Instantly

Sometimes it's hard to feel sexy when everyday demands of work, family, friends, and other responsibilities take up your time.  Add the fact that maybe we don't see our bodies as perfect in every way, and it's no wonder we allow ourselves to neglect the sexy side that lives in all of us.  Here is part 1 of "How to Feel Sexy Instantly".

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Running Shoes are for Kids (and Sports)

Walking through downtown's busy core, I notice that most men realize that for business wear, shoes are important.  They understand that their shoes should be as polished as the rest of their outfit.

Unfortunately, once the weekend hits, off go the stylish shoes and on come the techno-footwear that should only be worn if a person is doing his morning jog to keep fit; he is 7 years' old; or he is a ninja turtle.

Women notice footwear.  Take a look in any woman's closet and you know how much effort she puts into shopping for and choosing shoes that go perfectly with her outfit.  Guaranteed she has upwards of 10 pairs -- and those are just the casual ones.  If she is taking that much effort with her own shoes, a man can be assured she will be noticing his.

Equally important as the style of shoes a man wears, is their condition.  Scuffs, tears, white that has turned grey, and holes, all suggest that the wearer is waiting for his mom to buy him a replacement pair.  Unfortunately, his mom is under the impression she gave up that job years ago.

Washing, wiping, and polishing shoes can lengthen the time a pair of shoes look good, but once regular maintenance can no longer keep a pair looking fresh, it's time to replace them.

Here are two suggestions for casual footwear that are comfortable, yet suitable for a man's (not a boy's) weekend wear.  Both look sexy with a pair of jeans.  The canvas shoes are also cool for the summer and are great with shorts (just remember, no socks please).

Use these examples for inspiration and send us your before and after pictures via our e-mail address (pr at michelgermain.com) or post it directly onto our facebook fan page.


Saturday, February 19, 2011

How to Keep the Romance in Your Marriage


The other day I was talking about marriage with my close friend over a cup of tea.  She told me that she and her friends didn't need any flirting or dating advice because they were already married.  If I was a stick figure cartoon character, you would have seen 50 question and exclamation points instantly pop up, dancing over my head.

Being married isn't the "get into jail free; don't make passes; don't collect 200 kisses" card.  Marriage is the most important time to flirt, date, and invest time getting fresh ideas so your relationship doesn't go stale.  After all, if you can't flirt or date with your spouse, the most important person in your life, who will you ever do it with?

Newlyweds flirt and date with each other. (How fun!)  But somewhere along the way, many people forget to keep this part of their relationship healthy.

Yes, most people are deeply in love with their spouses, but with an ever-growing list of demands on their time, they forget to initiate (or avoid responding to) romance.  Both men and women often spend all day working; tending to their children's needs (if they have children); and fulfilling their daily responsibilities.  By the end of the day, their energy is sapped.  They often defer their most important responsibility -- their marriage.  

A marriage isn't an after-thought.  It should be the first thought.  Just because a couple has been together many years and share most every intimate detail of their lives and being, it doesn't excuse them from exploring each other and continuing to fall in love with each other even more.

Being over-tired and lacking energy isn't an excuse either.  Tired or not, office meetings, coffee with friends, and daily routines still happen.  Tired or not, taking care of the one you love still has to happen.

Married couples need to make a concerted effort to spend time together (alone ... no kids, no group dates, e.t.c.) to keep the romance alive.  It has to be scheduled, just as they would a doctor's appointment, a trip to the gym, or a business meeting.  (This meeting, however, would end up being a lot more fun.)  If it isn't scheduled, it won't happen.

Wives and husbands need time to see each other as individuals.  No one can do this unless they are able to be alone together at some point (snoring together doesn't count).

I, for one, refuse to allow my husband and I to become glorified roommates.  After years of marriage and continuing to raise three busy boys together, I love being so comfortable with him that I know he is my best friend.  But I forever want him to be my best friend with benefits.  




P.S.  This article may be of further interest:  "Keep the Excitement in Your Relationship"




Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Fun Dates Can Still Be Responsible Dates

I rarely link to other people's blogs but this one has a message I think everyone should think about.  This single girl knows when confidence and belief in one's self matters most.  I'm hoping everyone else does too.  

                                      http://singlegirlmisadventures.xanga.com/

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Keep the Excitement in Your Relationship

Sometimes we all need a little help to keep our relationship fresh and exciting, even if we have found the love of our life.  Daily routines and other demands on our time keep us running through the treadmill of life.  Before we know it, our relationship may be pushed to the back burner.


If this describes what has happened to your relationship, know that you are not alone.  Even those of us in the best relationships need to keep finding ways to reconnect with our loved ones.  Once you make it a goal to reconnect with your guy/girl, you will find it easier and easier to do every day.  The trick is to get started.  The rewards are immeasurable.


Here are some simple, but powerfully effective ideas to transform and revitalize your relationship.  


1.  Leave a thank you note on her pillow.  Thank her for the delicious dinner she made that evening.  Tell her how much you are looking forward to cuddling with her later.  Tell her how much you loved talking with her over dinner.


2.  Commit to spending time alone.  Ask him out on a date once a week.  Whether that is dinner out at your favorite restaurant; a walk through a nearby park; or a movie night in, the point is to have time alone to refresh your relationship.  Turn off all cell phones and keep the focus on the two of you.  Everyone needs time together without distractions to allow good conversation and other bonding to take place.


3. Go on an adventure.  Do something you have never done before.  Take horseback riding, scuba, or skating lessons.  Go on a balloon ride (they are surprisingly exciting and calming at the same time).  Adventures are the ultimate in bonding experiences.  It gives you a feeling of team spirit; gives you something in common to talk about; and raises your endorphin levels.


Brainstorm a few ideas of your own, then start doing them right away.  Mix it up, so your love life will always remain exciting and your loved-one will never know what to expect next.  It will transform your relationship.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Bad Boys ... How to Recognize If You Are Dating One

Bad boys are fun while they last, but only if you recognize you are dating one.  If you are addicted to the thrill of the chase more than the love of a relationship, bad boys are for you.  If not, stay away from them.  You might end up investing too much of your emotions and time into a relationship that is doomed.  Here are the tell-tale signs that you if are dating a bad boy. 


You find yourself investigating his past love life.  You barrage him with endless questions about his past girlfriends and why they broke up.  As soon as you find who he dated, you click her name on the computer keyboard, hoping you will find out more about her on Facebook and LinkedIn.  Your main goals?  To find out if she is still in touch with him or if she has named any children after him.


You nearly succeed at convincing yourself that you are the woman who will change his bad boy ways.  Your plan, if you can hang onto him long enough, is to be the all-around greatest girlfriend he has ever had:  a blend of mystery, wild fun, and glamor.  After a few weeks you realize you have bags under your eyes and your boss is about to fire you.  That's when you realize changing your bad boy's ways is a job for superwoman and you didn't come from planet Krypton.


After leaving him a message the day before, you border on hysteria for the whole day until the telephone rings at 9 p.m..  He's calling to say he is actually free tonight and would you like to get together.  You leap at the chance.


Once you recognize you are dating a bad boy, you can consciously decide if you want to stay on the roller coaster thrill ride he guarantees.  If not, you can get off at the next stop and find another ride that may be a little calmer, but just as mesmerizing and, if you choose the right one, just as thrilling.


Passionate, adventurous, with more than a touch of rebellion.  The irresistible scent that bad boys swear by.  Comes with cross piercing-stud.  Tattoo.  You'll love it.  Make it yours.


For the girl who loves bad boys.  Passionate, adventurous, with just a touch of rebellion.  Comes with a cross piercing-stud.  Tattoo.  You'll love it.  Make it yours.



Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Romantic Valentine's Dates That Will Make Her Yours

You've made it past the first date -- way past.  You took her to the best restaurants, the funniest movies, and every martini bar within the city limits.  Now Valentine's is just around the corner and you are scrambling, wondering what  you can do to that is a little more interesting, a little more fun, and can bond you together in more ways than one.


These three sexy Valentine's dates are bound to wow her and are guaranteed to make sparks fly:


Book a chef.  Track down a gourmet chef in your area that will come to your home and offer to teach the two of you to cook a romantic, scrumptious meal.  This date idea will set you apart from anyone else she has ever dated.  It's fun, it's inventive, and you bet she will never have done it with any other guy.




Source a take-home-chef at one of your favorite restaurants (not every restaurant offers these services, but they may give you a referral); on the internet; or gourmet cooking stores.  


Here are two websites to start your search.  This site will help find a personal chef in your area:  www.personalchef.com  .  This next site will give you an example of what a personal chef can do for you www.thechefinstead.ca .  




Book a day at the spa.  Don't be intimidated ... go for it!  Spas aren't just for women anymore.  Spas offer services for men and couples that are often underused. That makes it perfect because it's another opportunity for you to stand out from the crowd.




What is more romantic than a body-relaxing couple's massage, a long dip in a warm hydrotherapy bath together while sipping on a glass of sparkling champagne?  Top it off with a limousine ride home so you don't have to worry about drinking and driving and you're in heaven.


One of my favorite spa dates?  The "Escape a Deux":  http://www.setaiclubnewyork.com/special-offers/ .  It's pricey, but then again, it's in New York.  Most spas offer similar services without the New York price tag.  


Create your own "Chef and Spa" date:  Cook her a meal at your place.  Pick an easy recipe, practice making it once or twice, and invite her over Valentine's for dinner. 
Ultra-flirtatious & sexy, Sexual Secret's silky oil warms on contact & creates a heated passion.
Top it off with a massage.  It's really not that hard to master.  Sexual Secret Massage Oil ($19 for 100ml) tempts and teases with aphrodisiacs so alluring, she'll melt to your every wish and never let you go.  ( www.michelgermain.com  Look under "body care")  Warm it in the palm of your hands, and start rubbing.  Use slow, relaxing circular motions.  Practice doing this once or twice on your leg, so you gain confidence and skill.


She will love you for the thought and time you have put into making this her special day.  And as far as standing out from the crowd, she would be a fool to let you go after you take her on one of these  Valentine's dates, because 20 more women would be lined up to take her place once the word got out.
















Saturday, January 15, 2011

Weight Loss Success: Five Simple Tips to Help You Get to Your Healthy, Sexy Weight


Being this chiselled is nice.  Really nice.  But you don't have to be this chiselled -- whether you are a man or woman -- to be healthy.    


No one needs to be as skinny as a model on a runway, in fact being too thin for your body type and age may come with health risks of its own. Most men and women, however, do want to loose a few unwanted pounds – especially if it’s the kind that can get you into cardiovascular trouble … belly fat. Feeling healthier automatically makes you feel sexier too.  Here are five simple steps that can help you on your way to weight loss success.


One caveat: consult your doctor before making any changes (dietary or otherwise) and don’t attempt to do all of them at once. Too many changes to your lifestyle may make it hard to adjust. Make it easy on yourself, incorporating any two of the steps first. After one week, add another. Keep adding strategies until you have reached your goal of living a healthier lifestyle. Those unwanted pounds won’t be hanging around for long.

1. Drink mainly water.
Tea and coffee are fine too, but hold the cream and sugar. Need more fizz in your drink than just plain tap water? Don’t reach for a soda, go for a thirst-quenching Perrier with a spritz of lemon or lime. If it’s ice cold from the fridge (avoid adding ice because it dilutes the bubbles), it’s as refreshing as pop, with close to zero calories. The bubbles help fill you up, so if you have it with lunch or dinner, you’ll eat less too.
Avoid drinking fruit juices. Yes they’re healthy, but packed with sugar and calories. Better to save your fruit for a snack.The fibre found in fruit, but not necessarily in its juice, satisfies your hunger while giving you vitamins and anti-oxidants.
One drink you shouldn’t eliminate altogether, even for weight reduction, is milk. Choose a low fat variety. Everyone, especially women and thin men need the calcium to build bones. Bones, like skin, are constantly renewing themselves, so they constantly need a new supply of calcium. If you are allergic to milk/lactose intolerant, talk to your doctor about calcium supplements paired with vitamin D to help with calcium’s absorption.


2. Veto white bread, pasta, and rice.
White carbohydrates digest quickly, leaving you feeling hungrier faster than if you ate whole grain varieties. Whole grain varieties have more fibre, making them slow to digest so you’ll feel full longer.
Scared to try whole grain for fear they will taste as pasty and dry as cardboard? They used to, but not any more. Whole grain pasta tastes scrumptious, and its firm enough for even the most discriminating al-dente lover. Whole grain breads and bagels are often sweeter tasting than the white flour varieties. Just remember to still keep your intake of these carbohydrates down. A slice of bread whether whole grain or white still holds about the same amount of calories (depending on the brand), one is just healthier for you and keeps you full longer.  If you feel full, you are less likely to overeat, and you're more likely to lose weight.


3. Load up on fresh fruits and vegetables.
Fruits and vegetables do double duty when helping you lose weight. While they keep you feeling full because of their fibre content, they also take longer to eat than complex carbohydrates, so your body has a chance to tell you its full. Chewing an apple, for example, takes longer than chewing fluffy white rice. It takes your stomach ½ hour after it’s full to send the message to your brain that it has had enough food. That’s a long time. And if you’re still eating during that half hour because you loaded your plate with calorie rich foods and skipped the veggies, that’s a lot of extra calories your body just didn’t need.
Make your plate ½ to ¾ vegetables. That’s easy to do if you choose salad and one vegetable to go with that steak and potato. Stir fries are another easy option. One caveat: don’t load your vegetables with calorie laden toppings such as cheese sauce or butter. For salad dressing, make your own. It’s simple and quick. Combine one heart-healthy oil such as extra-virgin, cold pressed olive or canola oil with balsamic, rice, or red wine vinegar, salt and pepper, and a touch of your favourite mustard. Making your own dressings will save you extra calories, unwanted sugar, and salt found in many of the ready-made brands.


4. Be imaginative.
Weight loss can be sabotaged when you reach for high-calorie snacks.  Instead of cookies or a chocolate bar for a mid-day snack, opt instead for the sweetness of fruit. Sounds boring at first, but an icy cold, juicy orange is just as refreshing and thirst-quenching as a popsicle on a hot summer afternoon. So is watermelon. An apple topped with a dab of peanut butter goes great with a hot cup of tea on a cold winter day.


5. Sacrifice one calorie-laden food per week.
List your sabotage foods. Choose one to give up. Pick the easiest to let go first, so you can build confidence and stamina.For example, if you have desert after lunch and dinner, drop it after lunch. Even better, only have desert on the weekends. By the end of the week, the missed calories will really add up.
Once you have achieved your goal weight, give yourself back the weekends. Treat yourself one day a week. Enjoy a movie with popcorn or satisfy a chocolate craving. You’re trying to be fit, not completely deny yourself of the treats in life. Just keep them as indulgences – not as food staples.



Note: Do not make any dietary or physical activity changes without consulting your doctor.

Monday, October 25, 2010

Sexy Things To Do With Your Guy



Sometimes we take our relationships for granted, even our relationship with that sexy, love of our life.  To keep the spice in a relationship, it takes a little planning but the rewards lead to a better bond in all areas of your partnership.  

Here are some passion-inducing, fun things to do with your guy:

Take a sexy dance class together.  The tango is perfect.  Yes, it hit its peak in popularity in the 1920’s and 1950‘s; but don’t let that scare you away.  It’s the best kept secret.  Our parent’s generation never told us about the tango because they think we’re too innocent to do it.  It’s the dance of passion and nothing is more intimate than rubbing your body up against his.  He’ll have to wait until you get home to act on it, and that will make him all the more passionate.  Yum.
Stay in bed all morning.  Clear your schedule in advance and make a date with your guy.  Read, have breakfast, talk.  You’ll never know what will happen next.
French kiss.  Sometimes we forget to do it in our day to day lives.  When he’s sitting on the couch, crawl into his lap wearing a sexy outfit, and start exploring his lips with yours.  Keep going until you’re locked into the best French kiss you have ever given a guy.  It’s surprising how fast things heat up with this simple kiss.
Put a perfumed love note in his computer bag before he goes to work.  Make sure it’s pink so he’s reminded of how feminine you are and make sure the perfume is sexy.  He’ll be thinking of you every time he smells the scent.  He’ll work extra fast to get back to you extra early.
Plan a massage night.  Only thing is, to get one you have to give one.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Truth Serum: How to Get the Truth Out of Your Guy

It's hard to admit, but sometimes even nice guys lie.  This is especially true if you are in a new relationship and, although you really like each other, you are still getting to know whether he is the one for you (translation:  is he honest with you even in the midst of an uncomfortable situation).


The fabrication doesn't have to be big, even bending the truth a little is really a lie in disguise.  So, how do you get him to be honest about everything?  It's all in how you approach him.


Keep the pressure off when discussing difficult topics.  Men, in general, are more comfortable conversing while they are busy doing something with their conversation partner.  (How often do men book an appointment with their buddies to go for coffee as opposed to a round of golf, fishing, or watching a sport?)


Ask him questions while you are cooking dinner together, working out, or walking together.  Keep it simple.  Choose an activity you can easily fit into the day, so you actually have a chance to initiate the conversation.  Your questions will seem non-threatening to him and he will be more likely to open up to you.


Avoid interrogating him.  Sit, stand, or be next to him.  Don't position yourself across from him.  It is a lot less intimidating to speak to someone who is next to you as a partner or slightly off to one side, rather than head-on, as if engaged in a battle.  


Ask him open ended questions instead of stating accusations.  Accusations will close him down and put him on the defensive.  Asking for more information so you can understand where he is coming from will help him open up and feel relaxed enough to stick to the facts.  Instead of saying,"I hate it when you ... " say, "Why do you ... ?  It really makes me feel hurt."  Instead of "You always ... " say,"Is there a reason that you want to ... ?"  


Once you have asked the question, keep silent and wait for the answer.  Don't keep asking questions, it will give him time to think about what to say.  You want him to give you an answer that is truthful and not tailored to what he thinks you want to hear.  It's your turn to listen, keep calm, and really try to understand his point of view.  


Unless what he has said is a deal-breaker for you ("Yes, I did sleep with your best friend"), keep in mind that he has been honest with you and that is truly an act of love, even if it causes a temporary glitch in the relationship.  And that is the kind of a guy you deserve.







Tuesday, October 12, 2010

5 Easy Flirt Moves No Man Can Ignore


Sex-kitten flirting, like everything else, takes a little practice.  The more you do it, the better you get, and the more guys respond.  Here are 5 ways to flirt to get you on your way:


1.  When he comes near you, look him in the eye as you breath in slowly, saying, "Wow, do you ever smell good."


2.  When shopping at the grocery store, ask that hottie to help you reach the cookies on the top shelf.  Show him how you can't reach by standing on your tip-toes and stretching upwards.  He will have a chance to give your sexy stance the once over.


3.  When at a bar or party, order 2 drinks at once.  Walk over to the hunk you have been eyeing, give him one telling him the bartender mixed up your order and now you are looking for someone to share it with.


4.  Ask your sexy co-worker what time it is as you reach for his wrist to find out yourself.  Make your touch linger.


5.  When you are talking to him, keep glancing at his lips.   Casually caress your lower lip with a finger; a straw; or gently, seductively bite down on it with your teeth.  Watch him smile as he realizes what is going through your mind.


Above all, remember that confident body language is everything.  Stand up tall, make eye contact, keep your arms uncrossed, smile, and use your hands when talking.  He will find your moves hard to resist.www.michelgermain.com

Monday, October 4, 2010

Fun Date Ideas

A Hike with Sights Like this Inspire Togetherness

Thinking about going on a date is always exciting, but making sure the date itself is fantastic enough that she/he will want to do it again takes some planning.

Sure, there are the old stand-by's: going to a movie or a restaurant, and drinks afterwards is a safe idea, but what if you already had that date and you are looking for something that offers a little more fun. After all, the more fun the date is, the more you will bond, and the more likely another date will happen.

Here is a list of 3 things to do that will get you talking, smiling, and maybe even ... . Well, I'll leave that up to your imagination.

1. Take a hike. Every city has some hiking trails within driving distance. Do a little research, find out where some interesting trails are and start walking.

Jazz it up with a picnic lunch or snack, including some wine or a bit of bubbly champagne to make it lavish. Some other items you may want: gourmet sandwiches and salads from the local specialty deli; and homemade chocolates from your favorite dessert place. Choose food that you rarely get to eat to make it a real taste adventure. Be creative. Pack it all in a backback so you will still be able to hold your date's hand.

Be prepared for all kinds of weather. A picnic in the rain could be romantic if you have a raincoat, rain boots, and a waterproof blanket to sit on. Even if you live where it's snowing, this date can really be special. Just make sure you pack a couple of blankets to sit on and cover your legs with as you eat. (Maybe even trade the champagne for hot chocolate laced with Bailey's Irish Cream. Yum.)

2. Participate in an interesting class together. Taking a scuba diving class, a snowboard, tennis or a horseback riding lesson. Sure, it takes a bit of courage to show your true, sometimes inexperienced self to a new love-interest, but if you pick something he/she has never done before either, you will both be in the same boat.

The trade-off for some mutual embarrassment: a real bonding experience. When you both attempt something you both have never done before you feel like a team while you are doing it. After the class, you will have something in common to talk about, which will keep that team spirit going.

3. Go on a balloon ride. The thrill is guaranteed to make you both smile and bond together in an exhilarating experience. This type of bonding, over a thrilling event, will make both of you feel closer to one another. This date also builds that team spirit. You will both have something to talk about for days afterwards.

Friday, October 1, 2010

Lengthen Your Legs

Everyone, even those with sex-kitten, long legs wouldn't mind visually adding a few more inches to their legs.  So how do you do it? Wear nude-colored pumps.

The nude color matches your skin tone (if you are African-American, buy pumps that match your shade of skin, of course), so it visually tricks the eye, making your legs go on and on.

Try to skip the Mary Jane style that has a strap cutting across the ankle.  This has the opposite effect and cuts length off.  Stick to styles that are open and dip low toward the toe.  A pointed or open toe is best.

I have included two examples from NineWest shoes.  I love NineWest because they are comfortable and good quality.  There are many other makes available in this color, but these will provide you with inspiration.  Happy shopping.  (P.S.  One bonus to nude shoes:  they go with everything from jeans to sequins, and every color.  How practical!
Paul
PAUL #79.00

Ample
AMPLE  $89.00



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