4 Ways To Improve and Affair Proof Your Marriage

Marriage is one of life's oxymorons. It can be beautiful and fun if nurtured, but ugly and grueling if ignored. If you are married and love your husband, life and marriage, take steps to ensure that you are making every effort possible towards a fun, happy and stable marriage. You deserve a great marriage. Here are four ways to nurture your marriage, improve your marriage, and affair proof your marriage!

1. If you want to have a great husband, be a great wife. Lead by example. Put 100 percent into your marriage every day. Ask yourself, "How can I make my marriage better today?" If you want your husband to be your good friend, be a good friend to him. If you want him to be loyal, show him by modelling that behavior yourself. Call him at work to tell him you love him; give him a hug when you know he is having a tough day; and don't flirt with others.  Reserve the flirting for him & him only.

2. Be his friend. You've got that covered, right? Maybe it's time to make sure you do. When was the last time you had a date night together? Have you taken a vacation alone for 2 or more nights in the last year? Have you turned off the television and asked how he was? Being a friend in a marriage means more than sharing a house or children together. It means listening to and spending time with your spouse. Give him that time. He will love you all the more.

3. Be his sexual fantasy. Actually, you've pretty much got this one covered. He would not have married you otherwise. We all put on a few pounds over the years and we tend to grow a few grey hairs. But, men really don't notice this stuff as much as we do. All a husband ultimately wants is to be intimate with his wife. It is a way to show his wife how much he cares. Also, it allows him to feel connected to you on a deeper level. 

Why not encourage this connection? Wear your favorite fragrance. Prepare a great bubble bath for two. Flirt with him and make him feel the rush of knowing someone thinks he is sexy and hot. Before you know it, you will be feeling sexy and hot too.

Improve Your Relationship One Step At A Time To Get Back To All-Out Sexiness

Couples in long-term relationships often take each other for granted.  Although our partners mean the world to us, sometimes we can get bogged down in the everyday pressures of life and may ignore their sexy side.  How and why this happens can be a mystery to us.  How can someone we thought to be the sexiest person walking on the face of the earth slowly turn into more of a friend than a lover?


Actually, this stage of a relationship is normal.  When two people are in a long-term relationship, living life side by side and facing the challenges it brings, they are bound to become comfortable with each other.  This level of comfort is a good thing.  The trick is to keep (or get) the sexy back.  Here's how:

Great Summer Date Ideas That Will Lead to More (More Dates, More Fun, More Romance)

A Sunset Date Has Romance Written All Over It 

Our wildly popular date suggestions are some of our most read articles.  We're experts at dating advice that gives you great first date ideas or romantic anniversary dating ideas.  So we've decided to give you more romantic adventures to explore.  These date ideas are cute, romantic, and free!  (If you are married, don't forget to take your spouse on a date at least once a week.  It's one of the best ways you can say, "You're special.")