Romantic Valentine's Dates That Will Make Her Yours

You've made it past the first date -- way past.  You took her to the best restaurants, the funniest movies, and every martini bar within the city limits.  Now Valentine's is just around the corner and you are scrambling, wondering what  you can do to that is a little more interesting, a little more fun, and can bond you together in more ways than one.


These three sexy Valentine's dates are bound to wow her and are guaranteed to make sparks fly:

Book a chef.  Track down a gourmet chef in your area that will come to your home and offer to teach the two of you to cook a romantic, scrumptious meal.  This date idea will set you apart from anyone else she has ever dated.  It's fun, it's inventive, and you bet she will never have done it with any other guy.




Source a take-home-chef at one of your favorite restaurants (not every restaurant offers these services, but they may give you a referral); on the internet; or gourmet cooking stores.  


Here are two websites to start your search.  This site will help find a personal chef in your area:  www.personalchef.com  .  This next site will give you an example of what a personal chef can do for you www.thechefinstead.ca .  




Book a day at the spa.  Don't be intimidated ... go for it!  Spas aren't just for women anymore.  Spas offer services for men and couples that are often underused. That makes it perfect because it's another opportunity for you to stand out from the crowd.




What is more romantic than a body-relaxing couple's massage, a long dip in a warm hydrotherapy bath together while sipping on a glass of sparkling champagne?  Top it off with a limousine ride home so you don't have to worry about drinking and driving and you're in heaven.


One of my favorite spa dates?  The "Escape a Deux":  http://www.setaiclubnewyork.com/special-offers/ .  It's pricey, but then again, it's in New York.  Most spas offer similar services without the New York price tag.  


Create your own "Chef and Spa" date:  Cook her a meal at your place.  Pick an easy recipe, practice making it once or twice, and invite her over Valentine's for dinner. 

Ultra-flirtatious & sexy, Sexual Secret's silky oil warms on contact & creates a heated passion.

Top it off with a massage.  It's really not that hard to master.  Sexual Secret Massage Oil ($19 for 100ml) tempts and teases with aphrodisiacs so alluring, she'll melt to your every wish and never let you go.  ( www.michelgermain.com  Look under "body care")  Warm it in the palm of your hands, and start rubbing.  Use slow, relaxing circular motions.  Practice doing this once or twice on your leg, so you gain confidence and skill.


She will love you for the thought and time you have put into making this her special day.  And as far as standing out from the crowd, she would be a fool to let you go after you take her on one of these  Valentine's dates, because 20 more women would be lined up to take her place once the word got out.

Michel Germain: An Exclusive Look Inside of His Life

Guatemalan Women Heading to Market

I have been inundatedwith requests to write about Michel Germain, the creator of Sexual perfumes.  I would love to divulge every detail, but alas, he is an extremely private man.    


How do many people describe him? Wonderfully fair, debonair, and kind.  He is just like any other man ... with the addition of some notable characteristics of course.  He has a passion for fragrance, flowers, romance, style, and loves people (just ask his neighbours/friends).


His most notable character trait:  creativity.  He designs and creates not only his fragrances, but everything related to his fragrances, including their packaging.


His approach is hands-on.  For his latest creation, Sexual Sugar, he designed a carton that has real silver crystallized in layers of glass-like lacquer.  It was a labour intensive, 16-step process (unheard of in the fragrance industry).  Now Sexual Sugar has the most sophisticated, prettiest carton worldwide.


His flair for designing fragrances was born when he created Sexual for myself, his wife, Norma.  When we fell in love and married, he realized I rarely wore fragrance.  I would only wear a fragrance that made me feel beautiful and sexy.  I had not found that feeling in a perfume.  He was determined to give me a fragrance that would inspire these feelings. 


As a result, he researched aphrodisiacs and essential oils for years, hoping to create the perfect blend that was both beautiful and sexy.  He says he had some of the best experiences travelling to Italy; Grasse, France; and exotic locations around the world discovering the rare essential oils and aphrodisiacs that make up his fragrances today.  Now every fragrance he blends is overflowing with his signature aphrodisiacs. 

Where did he get this need to create?  Growing up he was, and still is, surrounded by style and talent.  His French Canadian mother was cultured and full of wit, yet loved every one who had a kind heart.  She was a culinary maven and loved to cook for anyone who dropped by (even if unannounced just before a meal -- a testament to her boundless patience).


Germain states that the aromas from her delicious cooking, delectably sweet desserts, and fruit jams still motivate him to create addictive gourmand fragrances or fresh, fruit-inspired blends.

Another one of his realtives is a prolific painter and avid gardener.  Some of her paintings are noted here.  As you can see, her paintings combine her two passions.

Not to be left out, younger members of his family are carrying on the creative tradition.  Featured here is one of their paintings entitled, "The Lake". 


Germain's own creativity came from ... who knows exactly where, but he is loving every minute of expressing it through his art -- creating fragrances.


I am leaving you with a peak at the art some of his family members have painted or owned.  Enjoy.

A painting reminiscent of Vincent van Gogh